President Jacob Zuma with his three wives Sizakele Khumalo, Nompumelo Ntuli, and Thobeka Mabhija after the State of The Nation address. AFP
Thu, 01 Jan 1970 12:01
JZ blasted for 'love-child'
Quoting a "close family friend", the Sunday Times reported that
a delegation from Zuma's family visited the Khoza family in
December last year to discuss Zulu customary damages, called
inhlawulo, payable when a child is born out of wedlock.
However, when Sonono was contacted for comment by the newspaper,
she said: "I don't know what you are talking about. I definitely
don't know what you are talking about," before ending the call.
Sonono is an events manager in the marketing division at Absa
Bank's Johannesburg headquarters. She has two other children from a
previous marriage.
According to the newspaper report, Zuma himself visited the
Khoza home in Diepkloof on 17 January, when he spent almost an hour
with Sonono and the infant.
Irvin Khoza was not at either of the meetings, but was said to
feel betrayed and humiliated about Zuma's relationship with his
daughter.
Khoza's youngest daughter, Zodwa (30) died in 2006 of
HIV/Aids-related causes. She had been the brand manager of Orlando
Pirates.
Zuma (67) wed his fifth wife Thobeka Madiba earlier this month,
two years after his marriage to Nompumelelo Ntuli. He married
Sizakele Khumalo in 1973. His wife Kate Mantsho Zuma
committed suicide in 2000 and he divorced Nkosazana Dlamini-Zuma,
who is Home Affairs Minister, in 1998.
He is engaged to Gloria Bongi Ngema, from Durban, whose family
presented umbondo (gifts) to the Zuma family at the end of
December.
Zuma defended his polygamy and called for an acceptance of Zulu
culture at the World Economic Forum in Davis, Switzerland, last
week.
He said he believed in the "equality of women", and that he
treated his wives equally.
Polygamy was part of his culture, and those who thought their
culture was "superior" had a problem.
Zuma dismissed a suggestion that polygamy was "symbolically a
great step backward" or inherently unfair to women.
"It depends what culture you come from. People interpret
cultures in different ways. Some think that their culture is
superior to others, that's a problem we have in the world."
South Africa followed a policy of respecting the cultures of
others.
"That's my culture. It does not take anything from me, from my
political beliefs and everything, including the belief on the
equality of women.
"It's my culture. And I'm sure there are cultures (that) do that
kind of thing," he said.
"The problem is that when people have their own culture ...
think that their culture is the only right one... the only one
accepted by God."
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